What does it mean "to take the parents"?

🍃The Family Constellation teaches us to leave with our parents what belongs to their destiny, to recognize them as human beings, that is, ordinary people like us, who live their own conflicts and family entanglements. Above all, honoring your father and mother is taking the life you received from your parents as it is and making something good out of it.

To take our parents, we must let go of the demands we place on their existence. It is necessary to keep in mind the acceptance of things that we can't change for our benefit. And not dare to want change or save them. Instead, we can carry out transformative actions that target what is possible to resignify and move forward.